The tricky part about dating is not knowing what someone’s intentions are. If you’re looking for a real-deal, long-term type of love while the person you’re interested in wants a casual fling, this obviously isn’t going to work. One way to protect your heart is to know what you might be getting yourself into ahead of time. Using astrology as a guide, we look at the signs most likely to settle down and the ones who won’t stick around for a fairytale ending.
1. Aries: “I’m an Aries Get Me Out of Here”
Aries are intense people and can be a bit much. They are high-energy, take on many projects, and constantly stay busy. A new relationship is exciting to them, and they will plunge in full force, but only for the conquest. Once they feel accomplished in obtaining someone, they will check that off their to-do list and keep it moving. If you’re looking for something long-term, beware of Aries—they’re often more about the thrill of the chase than sticking around for the relationship’s highs and lows.
2. Taurus: “The One” and Done”
Once a Taurus finds “The One,” they’re done. Like done done, going nowhere, ’til death do them part. Because of this, though, they’re insanely picky. They’re not fun to date because you’re on the most massive chopping block with them. Even if things are hot, steamy, and going well, their list of instant dealbreakers is so long that if you show a flicker of one, they will go ice cold on you in an instant. Taureans are only worth it if you reach the finish line with them; otherwise, you’re putting your whole heart on the line just to see if you’ve got a chance.
3. Gemini: “Catch Me if You Can”
Geminis have a dual personality, and you just never know which side you’re going to get. They could be extra attentive and loyal for a week straight, then switch up and act completely brand new the next. They’re also extremely flirty, play too much, and get bored easily. They’re best left hopping around, smooth-talking anyone who will listen. If you want something stable, Gemini might drive you crazy with their inconsistency.
4. Cancer: “Love Me Forever, Please”
Cancers are sensitive and loyal. They don’t want to hurt people and are not likely to engage in casual flings due to their love of romance. However, their likelihood of a short-term relationship depends on who they’re with. A Cancer’s moodiness can wear on even the strongest of people, and they might end up sending their partner packing despite their redeeming qualities. If you’re in it for the long haul, just know that a Cancer will need plenty of emotional nurturing.
5. Virgo: “I’m Playing Until Perfection Shows Up”
Virgos are also a sign that is committed once they settle, but their problem in getting to that point is mostly themselves. Virgos are extremely self-critical, and their perfectionism almost always gets in the way of their ventures. They will have a good thing standing right in front of them but find some way to talk themselves out of it. On the other hand, they’re also prone to staying in relationships they know are beneath them to avoid true vulnerability and heartbreak. If a Virgo is jumping from one relationship to another but not staying in them long, this could be what they’re doing.
6. Libra: “You Complete Me, I Think?”
Libras are all about love and will stay in a relationship forever for the sake of romance but also to avoid confrontation. Their likelihood of a short-lived relationship comes from whether their partner can tolerate their indecisiveness. This sign avoids conflict like the plague, which makes it seem like they don’t take anything seriously. They’re great while the honeymoon phase is still on, but when things get real, you might wonder if they’re up to the task of lasting love.
7. Sagittarius: “I’m Exploring Every Option”
Sagittarians are warm, optimistic and fun but not always the most reliable. They’re adventurous and tend to love flying solo, so they can be prone to ghosting. It’s easy to have a casual thing with them, but hard to connect on a deeper level. If you’re looking for a committed relationship, Sagittarius might leave you feeling like you’re always on the chas.
8. Pisces: “Hold Me Tight and Don’t Let Go”
You don’t have to worry about a Pisces leaving a relationship prematurely. In fact, it’s probably the exact opposite. These sensitive fishes are super empathetic and tend which leads to them giving their partners endless free passes and lingering in dead-end relationships. They fantasize too much and idealize their partner, often clinging to false hope. They’re more likely to end up losing themselves completely to another person.
9. Leo: “Put me on a Pedestal, and I’m Yours”
Leos love to be adored, and if you’re willing to put them on a pedestal, they’ll lap it up. They crush hard and fast with all the and confidence you’d expect from a Leo. But if the attention starts to wane, so does their interest. Leos need to feel like the star of the show, and if you’re their biggest super fan, they might start looking for someone to dote over them. If you can keep up with their constant need for attention and admiration, Leo can be fiercely loyal and committed.
10. Scorpio “Maybe, If We’re Compatible in Bed”
Scorpios are all about deep connections because physical chemistry and intimacy is a big deal for them. They’ll stay interested if the union is intense, but if the spark isn’t there, neither are they. Scorpios want a full-on mind-body-soul connection. If they sense you don’t click in and out of the bedroom they’re likely to cut their losses and move on. But if it’s strong Scorpio will hang on tight and become one of the most passionate partners you’ll ever have.
11. Aquarius: “I Don’t Do Conventional Relationships”
Aquarius aren’t looking for anything traditional or freedom crushing. They fall in love with someone’s mind first, so they need to intrigued by your ideas, wit, and unique quirks. These unconventional types values independence and free and prefers relationships that don’t fit the standard mold. They’ll take their time to get to know you on a deeper level, while still keeping things casual on the surface. If you’re okay with a relationship that’s a little out of the ordinary, Aquarius can be an incredibly loyal partner just don’t rush them.
12. Capricorn: “I’m Too Busy Working for a Relationship”
Capricorns are ambitious put their careers often come first, which means they can be pretty slow to make a move or commit in the game love. Even if they like you, they will weigh whether a relationship will fit into their carefully planned life. They think everything through logically and practically which can make them seem a little cold and uninterested at first. Once they decide that you’re worth the investment, they’ll commit fully. Patience is key but if you’re looking for someone who prioritizes work-life balance, you might be in for a long wait.