If you sense someone has feelings for you but can’t understand why they won’t speak up or make their move, astrology could unlock the answer. Each zodiac sign has its approach to pursuing a romantic interest, and being dialed into their M.O. could be a game-changer. Let’s decode who secretly crushes for a lifetime or is brave enough to lay their cards on the table.
1. Capricorn
Career-wise, Capricorns are confident go-getters. They aggressively work their way up the ladder with their eye firmly fixed on their goals. If they want you, this same level of energy will apply. They are determined to get what they want in a borderline ruthless way. Despite their Type-A exterior, however, they can be highly insecure and sensitive. They may let their hidden feelings linger for a while if they’ve been hurt before.
2. Pisces
Pisces are hopeless romantics. They have likely dreamed up the ideal fairytale scenario and will make grand gestures to lure you in. Unless they are pining over you in silence because they’ve gone through a trail of heartbreaks and reverted to their “slippery fish” ways. They’ll crush in private (and in their imagination) until they feel it’s safe to come out. Until then, they’re probably busy writing poems or ballads inspired by you in their diaries and planning your lives together in their daydreams.
3. Taurus
Tauruses are very loyal, and when they find “The One,” they will happily settle down and make no plans to move on, ever. So, if a previous relationship has failed, it will have been a hard hit. A Taurus who has been through a bad breakup or divorce will be even s-l-o-w to make a move. They may like you and be seriously interested, but letting go of the past will take an act of God. They’re likely to lurk in your life for a while until they gain the confidence to try again, but only if they feel stability, security, and long-term commitment are assured.
4. Cancer
Cancers are super sensitive and emotional. They can be just as idealistic about love as Pisces is and equally as cautious. If they are interested in you, they’ve likely been showing it already, albeit subtly. You can expect small gifts and kind gestures from them. They may not be bold enough to vocalize their feelings, especially if they’ve felt a hint of rejection or hesitation before. When they don’t feel safe or deeply connected, they’re likely to retreat within their shells for a bit, and you’ll have to wait for the moon to change before they come out.
5. Scorpio
Scorpios are naturally skeptical of everyone and dislike wasting their time. They need a strong, intense connection but aren’t likely to continue to crush on someone very long with no chance of return. They’re likely to go all-in if they meet someone they see a future with. If it doesn’t pan out, they will drop the whole thing just as quickly and close off that idea forever (and probably hold a grudge). You have a small window of opportunity to be pursued and let in by a Scorpio.
6. Gemini
It’s impossible to ever truly know if Gemini is genuine or just crushing. They probably don’t know either. Geminis have a dual nature; they like to keep things light and tend to play games. They may like you because you’re fun to be around, and they’re happy to hang out and chat (talking is their favorite thing), but whether they’ll go all in or let you know if they even want to, that’s anyone’s guess.
7. Virgo
Virgos are highly self-critical and seek perfection. They may like you, but unless they feel completely assured that you and the relationship have what it takes to go the distance, they may stall on announcing their feelings. This could go on for years, as their expectations of others and themselves are totally unrealistic, so they’re likely to drown in their insecurities before they ever make a move.
8. Aries
When it comes to crushing, Aries doesn’t waste any time. They’re the type to see something they want and go after it—fast. An Aries will crush on you for about five seconds before making a move. They’re direct, bold, and fearless when it comes to love. If they like you, you’ll know it. They’re not the type to play games or hold back their feelings, so expect a confident approach, maybe even a little too confident, as they dive headfirst into trying to win you over. Why wait when they can conquer? That’s the Aries mindset. The trouble is they are so impulsive they might work out just as fast you weren’t what they wanted at all.
9. Leo
Leo, the lion, loves a good romance, and when they’ve got a crush, they’ll let it simmer just long enough to ensure the timing is perfect. Leos are all about grand gestures but must ensure the stage is set before they make their big move. They’ll crush on you for a while, enjoying the flirtation and the build-up, but don’t mistake their patience for shyness—they’re just waiting for the moment that puts them in the best light. Once they’re ready, expect a bold, unforgettable move that leaves you in no doubt about their intentions. Leo knows they’re worth it, and they want you to know it, too.
10. Sagittarius
Sagittarius is the adventurer of the zodiac, and when they crush, it’s more of a fun chase than a serious pursuit. They’ll crush on you for a little while, maybe flirt here and there, but they’re not in any rush to make things official. They love the thrill of the chase, the excitement of what could be, but they value their freedom and independence too much to lock it down. Sagittarians might take their time, enjoying the game and testing the waters, but if they see a chance to make a move and it feels right, they’ll jump in.
11. Libra
Libra loves love, but they’re also notorious for being indecisive. They’ll crush on you for a long time before making a move, often caught up in weighing all the pros and cons. Libras are natural flirts, so they might drop hints and engage in serious eye contact, but they’ll hesitate to take the plunge. They want to ensure everything is perfectly balanced—after all, they’re ruled by the scales.
12. Aquarius
Aquarius is the wild card of the zodiac, and when they’ve got a crush, it’s hard to tell what they’re thinking. They’ll crush on you for a good while before making a move, mainly because they’re busy analyzing the situation from every angle. Aquarians are notoriously independent and can be aloof, so they might hold back for fear of losing their freedom or disrupting the status quo. They’re not the type to rush in; they prefer to observe and get to know you deeper before deciding if they want to take things further. But when they decide to make a move, it’s likely to be quirky and unexpected—just like them.