1. Gemini is Flirty and Inconsistent
We’re not suggesting your partner will wrong you but using their star sign traits and tendencies as a guide, here are some ways your interest could hurt you. In the case of Gemini, they are inconsistent in their moods and emotions, unreliable, and even a little two-faced making it hard for their partner to feel secure. Their flirtatious nature, need to socialize, and love of variety might lead to feelings of jealousy and insecurity from their partners. In fairness, this is valid as Gemini’s do tend to cheat.
2. Aries are Aggressive
Aries is impulsive, impatient, self-centered, and has zero tact. They are most likely to burn you with nasty hurtful comments in the heat of the moment. Rams aren’t naturally mean, but they are the gods of war so sparring off is like going to a day spa for them. Their constant need for change, excitement, and being on the go can also make a partner feel alone and neglected.
3. Taurus is Stubborn
Taurus are stubborn, inflexible, and have a hard time adapting to new situations, environments, and people. Their fear of change or upsetting the status quo can make them possessive to the point of overbearing in a relationship as its ending will disrupt their sense of stability. This can make partners feel suffocated, controlled, bored, and resentful.
4. Cancer is Crabby
Cancers can be overly sensitive, emotional, and moody (crabby) which can be a killjoy and make their partners feel like they have to walk on eggshells. The crab’s tendency to retreat into their shell can leave their partner feeling abandoned and they may also seek refuge in toxic behaviors like drugs and alcohol.
5. Leo is Egotistical
Leos crave constant attention, want the spotlight all to themselves and their self-absorbed nature means they put their needs above their partners. A lion’s pride also makes it difficult for them to admit when they are wrong so arguments can hang in the air. You could feel alone, and invisible in a relationship with a Leo and they may blame you for everything.
6. Virgo is Judgy
Virgos are perfectionists and tend to be critical of their partner and anyone who doesn’t measure up. This can make a partner feel constantly judged, not good enough and do a real number on your self-esteem. A Virgo’s tendency to worry, overthink, and obsess over every detail can also create unnecessary tension and stress and suck the fun out of a relationship.
7. Libra is Neglectful
Libras strive to find harmony and balance but never actually do so this makes them indecisive, anxious, and frustrated which causes disagreements. The problem is Librans hate conflict so can become avoidant creating more unresolved issues. Libra uses charm to mask their insecurities so they are people pleasers who often never make time for their partner or the relationship. This means their partner is forced to overgive and carry the load while feeling neglected.
8. Scorpio is Tricky
Scorpios are secretive and mysterious and can have a deadly sting. In relationships, they can become intensely jealous, and possessive and create a suffocating, co-dependent atmosphere. Their secretive nature and tendency to hold onto a grudge for like a lifetime, can also lead to mistrust and insecurity and the entire relationship can feel like a game of cat and mouse.
9. Sagittarius are Commitment-Phobes
Sagittarians thrive on freedom and adventure (the crazier and riskier the better) and feel trapped and become commitment-phobic in a relationship. They also have a sharp tongue and will cut their partner deeply with their blunt, careless words or actions. Their constant need for new adventures and self-absorbed nature can make partners feel neglected and unimportant.
10. Capricorn is Cold
Capricorns are fueled by ambition and success and aren’t usually that warm or emotional so can act cold and distant toward their partner. The goat’s need for control and rigidity can squash a partner’s independence, overshadow their dreams, and make them feel like life is their way or the highway which is probably the case.
11. Aquarius are Aloof
Aquarians march to their own beat and are usually crazy busy in their heads inventing new technologies and solving the climate crisis. As a result, they can be detached and aloof toward partners making them feel emotionally unsupported and abandoned. Their unconventional and unpredictable behavior can also be a little chaotic and unsettling making their partners feel stressed, insecure, and like the relationship isn’t stable.
12. Pisces are Fragile
Pisceans are incredibly romantic and are typically great lovers but their idealistic and escapist nature means they don’t always live in reality. Their tendency to be overly sensitive, empathetic, and a bit on the pessimistic side means their feelings can get hurt very easily and the dynamic is often one of emotional enmeshment. This can make it difficult for their partner to establish healthy boundaries and you could end up having to play therapist to the emotionally draining delicate fish.