First dates are not for the faint-hearted. Whether you’re the shy type or bursting with confidence, they are still nerve-wracking. We turned to astrology to assess who plays a first date as cool as a cucumber while others secretly sweat bullets. Here’s a breakdown of how each star sign ranks in the stress department on a first date.
1. Virgo: The Perfectionist Nervous Wreck
Virgos are the champions of first-date stress. They overthink everything—from what to wear to what to how their hair looks under different lighting. A Virgo perfectionist will probably spend hours planning the perfect outfit and rehearsing conversation topics in the mirror. They’ll be super polite and attentive, but their mind is racing a mile a minute, analyzing every little detail. They fear coming across as boring or imperfect, so they’re always on edge.
2. Cancer: The Emotional Bundle of Nerves
Cancer is an emotionally sensitive soul, and on a first date, those feelings run wild. They’re nervous about everything, including whether you’ll like them, whether they’ll like you, and whether this could lead to something serious. Cancers are known for being nurturing, so they could show up with a small gift. Underneath that sweet exterior, they’re so worried about being vulnerable and getting hurt they’ll be sweating bullets, hanging on to every word, analyzing your tone and body language for any hint of disinterest.
3. Pisces: The Worry Wart
Pisces wants the first date to be magical so they will be nervous and worried. These daydreamers imagine every possible outcome before the date even happens, causing some serious anxiety. They’ll be dressed in something whimsical and romantic and try to make a deep emotional connection immediately. Their nerves, however, might get the best of them, leading to awkward silences or a tendency to ramble. Pisces biggest fear is reality won’t live up to the fantasy they’ve built in their head.
4. Capricorn: The Cool Calculated Cucumber
Capricorns approach first dates like a business meeting—they’re serious, focused, and out to make an impression. They’ll be dressed impeccably, probably in something classic and sophisticated, and be on time—early, even. Capricorns fear coming off as stiff or boring, so they’ll try to show their softer side but may struggle to relax and have fun. They’ll ask a lot of questions as they are trying to gauge if you’re someone who fits into their long-term plans.
5. Libra: The Charming Overthinker
Libras want everything to be perfect and beautiful, making them nervous on a first date. They’ll spend much time picking a stylish but not too over-the-top outfit. Libras are natural flirts, so they’ll be charming and light-hearted but constantly worried whether you’re having a good time and if you find them attractive. They fear awkward silences and will do everything possible to keep the conversation flowing.
6. Gemini: The Nervous Chatterbox
Gemini are master communicators, but their nerves can turn them into nonstop talkers on a first date. They’re excited and anxious simultaneously, so they’ll jump from topic to topic, trying to keep the mood upbeat and the conversation interesting. Geminis are worried about coming across as boring, so they’ll pull out all their best stories and jokes, which can be a little too much. They’re the friendliest nervous wreck you’ll ever meet.
7. Scorpio: The Intense Observer
Scorpios don’t get nervous in the traditional sense; they become even more intense. On a first date, they’re hyper-focused on figuring you out, which can make them seem intimidating. They’ll dress in something dark and sexy, and their conversation will go deep. Scorpios fear betrayal or being misunderstood, so they’ll carefully watch your every move to see if you’re worth their trust. They’re nervous about revealing too much too soon, so they’ll play their cards close to the chest, which can make them intoxicatingly mysterious.
8. Taurus: The Cautious Romantic
Taurus craves stability, so first dates can make them a bit uneasy. They’ll dress in something chic and comfortable (nothing flashy) and take you to a place they know well—a favorite restaurant or a cozy spot. Taurus fears being rushed or pressured, so they’ll take their time getting to know you. They’re not the most talkative, but they’ll warm up once they feel comfortable. Taurus wants to ensure you’re worth the investment before they let their guard down as they look for the real stable deal.
9. Leo: The Fake Confident
Leos are confident and self-assured but not entirely immune to first-date nerves. You’ll never know. They’ll dress to impress, in something bold and eye-catching, and perform their best. Leos wants to be admired. These natural flirts will try to sweep you off your feet, but they’re secretly worried about rejection or not meeting your expectations. They’ll keep the mood light and fun, trying to impress you without letting on that they’re a little nervous or that interested.
10. Aries: The Bold Initiator
Aries is bold, confident, and assertive, so they’re not usually too nervous on a first date. They’ll take charge of the plans and pick a fun activity or a lively spot to show off their energy and enthusiasm. Aries is about making things happen, so they’re not shy about expressing their interest. They might be nervous about being too forward or coming on too strong, but they’ll push through those nerves with a “go big or go home” attitude. Whether they like you or not, the conquest matters to them.
11. Aquarius: The Chill Detached
Aquarius will be pretty chill on a first date, to the point of seeming detached. They’re more interested in intellectual connection than romantic gestures, so they’ll dress casually and focus on the conversation. Aquarius is curious and loves learning about new people, but they’re not concerned about making a perfect impression. They don’t like small talk or conventional dating rituals; they prefer to dive deep and engage in out-of-the-box experiences.
12. Sagittarius: The Laid-Back Commitment-Phobe
Sagittarius is the least nervous sign on a first date, probably because they don’t take relationships that seriously. They see dating as an adventure and focus more on having a good time than stressing over the details. Sagittarius will dress casually, maybe even a little rugged, and pick an activity that’s fun and adventurous. They’re open, honest, and not too worried about what you think of them—they’re here for the experience. If they’re nervous about anything, it’s whether you can keep up with their adventurous spirit or, worse, whether they will be bored.