We all have our ways of showing we’re upset, but some are more subtle than others. Let’s look at the zodiac to uncover the often-missed signals that prove each sign is secretly upset with you.
1. Aries
Aries’ aren’t known for subtlety, but their first signs of displeasure can be surprisingly understated. Watch for a sudden decrease in their usual high energy when interacting with you. If an Aries who normally can’t stop talking about their day suddenly gives you one-word answers, they’re likely upset. You might also notice them becoming more competitive with you in small ways, like turning every conversation into a debate. And their normally playful banter might be a little sharper.
2. Taurus
A Taurus upset is like a slowly simmering pot. Look for signs of stubbornness in small matters they’d usually let slide. They might “forget” to do something you’ve asked, or take an unusually long time to respond to your texts. Physical comfort is important to Taurus, so if they suddenly stop offering you their favorite snacks or seem less interested in making cozy plans, it’s a sign something’s amiss.
3. Gemini
An upset Gemini might become excessively chatty…about everything except what’s bothering them. Pay attention if they start tip-toeing around subjects or use more sarcasm than usual. Their typically witty remarks might have a bitter undertone. You might also notice them becoming flightier, canceling plans last minute, or being unusually forgetful.
4. Cancer
With Cancer, look for subtle signs of emotional withdrawal like fewer check-ins or a decrease in their usually nurturing behavior. They might sigh more often or give you wistful looks when they think you’re not paying attention. An upset Cancer might also become passive-aggressive, making martyred comments about how much they do for others.
5. Leo
A Leo’s pride often prevents them from openly admitting they’re upset, but their dramatic nature will always poke through. Watch for exaggerated sighs or eye rolls when you speak. They might start name-dropping or talking about their achievements more than usual, a subtle way of reminding you of their importance. An upset Leo might also suddenly become less generous with their compliments or attention.
6. Virgo
Virgos might start pointing out small flaws in your appearance or work that they would usually overlook. Pay attention if they become overly helpful, offering unsolicited advice on how you could improve various aspects of your life. They might also become more rigid about schedules and plans, which is their way of exerting control when they feel emotionally off-balance.
7. Libra
Libras hate conflict, so when they’re upset it’s very subtle. They might become indecisive about small things, a passive-aggressive way of putting the burden of choice on you. They also might start talking more about other friendships or relationships, subtly comparing them to yours. If it’s really bad, they’ll even be more image-conscious around you, dressing up more than usual or name-dropping, as if trying to remind you of their value.
8. Scorpio
When upset, a Scorpio might start asking probing questions about your life, gathering information rather than openly confronting you. Pay attention if they become unusually quiet but still watchful, observing your reactions closely. They could even start speaking in cryptic ways, making oblique references to trust or loyalty. If a normally private Scorpio suddenly starts oversharing about their feelings for others, they might be trying to provoke you.
9. Sagittarius
With a Sagittarius, watch for signs of increased physical restlessness or a sudden interest in solo adventures. They also might become more blunt than usual, their honesty taking on a harsher edge. If a typically optimistic Sagittarius starts making cynical jokes or comments around you, they’re likely nursing some resentment.
10. Capricorn
Capricorn’s go-to moves are emotionally distancing and focusing on work. If they’re more formal or businesslike in their interactions with you, that’s a sign they’re upset. They might also start referring to past achievements or responsibilities more often, subtly reminding you of their value. At their worst, Capricorn becomes more rigid about rules and expectations, using structure as a way to create emotional barriers.
11. Aquarius
An Aquarius upset often looks like increased emotional detachment. They might start speaking more in abstract terms, discussing humanity as a whole rather than personal matters. Watch for an increase in unusual or eccentric behavior—that’s their way of asserting individuality when feeling misunderstood. Also, the Aquarius will likely challenge you on trivial matters, becoming more contrarian than usual.
12. Pisces
An upset Pisces might become more melodramatic, sighing heavily or making vague comments about feeling misunderstood. If a usually empathetic Pisces starts setting firm boundaries or seems less tuned in to your emotional state, they’re likely protecting themselves from perceived hurt.