When it comes to relationships, control can be a tricky thing. Some people thrive on being in charge, while others are more laid-back, preferring to go with the flow. But how much of this is influenced by our star signs? Whether it’s about managing the little things or wanting to steer the entire ship, some zodiac signs are naturally more inclined to take control in relationships. Here’s a nuanced look at which star signs are most likely to show controlling tendencies in a relationship.
1. Scorpio
It’s no surprise that when it comes to the most controlling star signs, Scorpio tops the list. As a Scorpio, you’re known for your depth of emotion and fierce loyalty, which can sometimes translate into controlling behavior in relationships. Your intensity, passion, and fear of betrayal are undeniable, but be mindful that your partner doesn’t feel smothered by your need to oversee everything.
2. Capricorn
Capricorn, you’re all about structure and planning, which can make you super intense and controlling. You don’t mean to be this way; you just like to know what’s coming next, and you have a tendency to map out the future, sometimes without consulting your partner first. Remember that relationships are about balance and not meticulously planning every detail.
3. Leo
Leo, your natural leadership and desire to be the best can make you a bit controlling in every aspect of your life, including when you’re in a relationship. You believe that your partner is an extension of the confident image you put out into the world. Because of this, sometimes you may wind up trying to control certain aspects of your partner’s life to keep up appearances.
4. Taurus
When a Taurus is in a relationship, they crave stability and comfort, and when that’s threatened, you can become quite controlling. You have a strong desire to maintain the status quo, and therefore, change isn’t something you handle well. When it comes to relationships, you are dependable for being steadfast, but be careful not to let it turn into stubbornness.
5. Virgo
As a Virgo, you’re meticulous and detail-oriented, which can, at times, turn into you being controlling in relationships. From nitpicking little qualities to choosing what’s for dinner, your staunch meticulousness can make your partner feel like they’re under a microscope.
6. Cancer
Cancers have a deep emotional connection and need for security that can make them seem a bit controlling in relationships. But this comes from a place of love. You want to protect your partner and the love you share so much that you hold on to them a little too tightly.
7. Aries
Aries, you’re fiercely independent and love to take charge, which can attract prospective partners. Because you’re a staunch go-getter, you’ll often find that you’re the one making all the decisions in your relationship, which can drive your partner up the wall and feel totally smothered. Remember that relationships are about balance and co-existence.
8. Libra
Even though, as a Libra, you’re all about balance and harmony in a relationship, sometimes that desire is so strong that you come off as controlling. While you’re not a full-blown control freak like a Capricorn, you might dabble with manipulation to keep the peace because you are a natural-born people pleaser.
9. Aquarius
Aquarius, you value your independence and tend to approach relationships with an unconventional mindset. While you’re not overtly controlling like the other signs, you do have strong opinions about how you think certain things should be done, and you’re not afraid to say that. Depending on your partner, this could be a breath of fresh air or overly controlling.
10. Gemini
Geminis make great partners because they’re flexible and adaptable, which makes them less likely to be controlling in a relationship. As a Gemini, you’re more interested in exploring ideas and having stimulating conversations than in controlling your partner’s actions. However, your dual nature can sometimes unpredictably cause you to swing from easy and breezy to subtly controlling.
11. Sagittarius
Sagittarians are experts on freedom, and they wouldn’t dream of impeding on their partner’s freedom. They also expect their partners to afford them the same luxury. If you’re dating a Sagittarius, you won’t be getting incessant calls and texts or being told what to do. If anything, they’ll treat you like a true equal.
12. Pisces
Pisces are the least controlling partners of all the signs. They’re all about empathy and emotional connection, and they’re much more likely to go with the flow and support their partner’s needs than to try and control the relationship. A desire to control things is just simply not in their DNA.