Intimacy is one of the most important aspects of romantic relationships, but believe it or not, it doesn’t come naturally to all of us. While some star signs thrive on deep emotional connections, others want to avoid it altogether. Whether it’s due to trust issues, fear of vulnerability, or simply being more reserved, some signs need a little more time and patience when it comes to being intimate. Here, we rank the zodiac signs that find it most challenging to be intimate with their partners.
1. Capricorn
Capricorns are known for their ambition and dedication to achieving their goals, but when it comes to intimacy, they tend to box people out. They’re not the ones to wear their heart on their sleeve, and most of the time, they can’t communicate their emotions openly with their partner. They prefer to keep things practical and grounded, like the earth sign they are.
2. Aquarius
Aquarians are detached and aloof, they value independence, and they tend to approach relationships from an intellectual rather than emotional perspective. So, while they’re great at stimulating conversations and innovative ideas, don’t expect them to be opening up to you right away and airing all of their feelings.
3. Virgo
Virgos are always in their own head. They have high standards for themselves and others, and they’re afraid of showing vulnerability because it feels like exposing their imperfections. Because they’re always overthinking things, you’ll find they don’t often relax and be in the moment with their partner. It doesn’t mean they don’t care; they just can’t access those feelings as easily as other signs.
4. Scorpio
Scorpios are hugely intense and very emotional. While you might think this means they find it easy to open up with a loved one, this can also make intimacy a double-edged sword for them. While they crave deep emotional connections, they’re also highly protective of their inner world and don’t easily let people in.
5. Aries
Aries are fiercely independent, they don’t need intimacy, or a partner for that matter, which can sometimes make emotional depth feel like a challenge. They’re more focused on the here and now than on deep emotional bonding. But while intimacy isn’t their strong suit, they are intensely passionate, which makes up for it.
6. Gemini
Geminis have razor-sharp wit and social charm to rival a Leo, but when it comes to intimacy, they might find it difficult to stay focused. As an air sign, Geminis are always in their heads and juggling a million different thoughts. They also naturally want to keep everything light and breezy, which can sometimes prevent them from fully engaging in the emotional aspects of a relationship. While they’re great at communication, they might need to work on slowing down and being more present with their partner to build a deeper connection.
7. Leo
Leo is confident and charismatic, but intimacy can be challenging for them because it requires them to let down their guard and show vulnerability. While they love deeply and are incredibly loyal, they don’t easily want to show all their cards and reveal the things that make them tick. That’s not to say it’ll never happen, though!
8. Sagittarius
A Sagittarius would rather emotionally bond through adventure and experiences than through talking. While they’re open and honest with their partner, they might struggle with the idea of being tied down by emotional intimacy. When it comes time for them to be ready to be emotionally intimate, their aversion to sugarcoating means that you’ll know exactly how they feel.
9. Taurus
Taureans are known for their loyalty and dependability, which makes them a stable and loving partner. They prefer to show their love through actions rather than words, which can sometimes make it difficult for their partner to connect with them on a deeper emotional level. But one thing is for sure: A Taurus will always make it known that they are totally devoted to you.
10. Libra
Libra is all about balance and harmony in their relationships, and they’re generally comfortable with intimacy. They’ll intuitively know your needs, and they’ll strive to create a peaceful and loving environment. Though sometimes their desire to be the peacemaker will override how they truly feel, you can always emotionally connect with a Libra.
11. Cancer
It’s no surprise that Cancer is one of the most emotionally intuitive and nurturing signs. Intimacy just comes naturally to them. They’re deeply connected to their emotions and have a strong desire to build a close and loving bond with their partner. Like anyone, they’re initially afraid of sharing that part of themselves, but once they do, they’re one of the most loving and intimate partners.
12. Pisces
If your partner is a Pisces, then you already know that they are all about empathy and emotional connection, making them the most naturally intimate sign of the zodiac. They’re so deeply in tune with their partner’s feelings that they’ll have you wondering if they’re in your head. Their compassionate and understanding nature makes them a loving and supportive partner who thrives on deep emotional bonds.