We’re about to explore which signs might have you reaching for an extra shot of espresso (or maybe a Red Bull) in your relationships. Remember, this is all in good fun—every sign has its quirks, and sometimes those quirks just happen to be particularly exhausting. Let’s do it!
1. Gemini
Taking the crown for most likely to leave you completely drained is our dear Gemini. One minute they’re deep-diving into existential philosophy, the next they’re gossiping about the neighbor’s cat. Trying to keep up with their rapidly shifting moods and interests is frustrating and messy. Geminis require constant mental stimulation, which means you’re always “on.”
2. Aries
Coming in hot at number two is Aries. These fire signs are always ready for action, whether you are or not. An Aries partner will have you mountain climbing on Monday, starting a business on Wednesday, and planning a round-the-world trip on Friday. Their enthusiasm is infectious, sure, but it’s also exhausting. They approach everything—from love to lunch choices—with a deep intensity that would make anyone want to take a nap.
3. Leo
Leo is the star of their own show, and guess what? You’re the audience, the backstage crew, and the adoring fan all rolled into one. Leos need constant admiration and attention, which means you’re always on cheerleader duty. They’ll regale you with tales of their daily triumphs (making perfect toast is an achievement, okay?), and you’ll be expected to react with Oscar-worthy levels of enthusiasm every single time.
4. Scorpio
Relationships with Scorpios are nothing if not deep, but sometimes you might feel like you need scuba gear to keep up. A simple “How was your day?” can turn into a three-hour analysis of your childhood traumas and future fears. While this intensity can lead to incredibly strong bonds, it can also leave you feeling like you’ve run a marathon. Loving a Scorpio is like being in a never-ending therapy session.
5. Pisces
These water signs feel everything deeply—not just their own emotions, but yours, your neighbor’s, and possibly the emotions of people on the other side of the world. While their compassion is beautiful, it can also be incredibly draining. You might find yourself constantly reassuring them, navigating their mood swings, or getting pulled into their elaborate fantasies.
6. Virgo
These earth signs have a never-ending quest for self-improvement, and lucky you, you get to come along for the ride! Virgos will analyze every aspect of your relationship, always looking for ways to optimize and enhance. While this can lead to growth, it can also feel like you’re constantly under a microscope. Every decision becomes a research project, every mistake a learning opportunity.
7. Sagittarius
These fire signs love their freedom more than anything, which can leave you feeling like you’re constantly trying to pin down a moving target. They’re always looking for the next adventure, which is exciting but can also be exhausting if you’re craving stability. You might find yourself constantly competing with their wanderlust, wondering if their next trip is an escape… from you.
8. Capricorn
Capricorns are always working towards their goals, which is admirable but can leave little time for relaxation or spontaneity. You might find yourself penciled into their schedule between “conquer the world” and “plan next world conquest.” Their drive can be inspiring, but it can also make you feel like you’re in a chronic business meeting.
9. Aquarius
Aquarians are always ten steps ahead, which can be exciting, but also emotionally draining. They’re more comfortable discussing the future of humanity than their feelings about your relationship. You might find yourself constantly trying to pull them back down to earth and connect on an emotional level. Loving an Aquarius is kinda like dating a brilliant mad scientist.
10. Cancer
These water signs feel things deeply and are incredibly nurturing, which is lovely but can also be draining if you feel like you’re constantly navigating their mood swings. Their need to care for others can sometimes feel smothering, and their tendency to take things personally can lead to lots of conflict. Just always be ready for the next flood of feelings.
11. Libra
Libra hates conflict and will go to great lengths to keep the peace. Sure, it can be nice, but it’s also exhausting if you feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells to avoid upsetting the balance. Their indecisiveness can also be draining, so be prepared for long debates about where to have dinner.
12. Taurus
And finally, standing firm in last place is Taurus. These earth signs are the least likely to actively drain your energy, preferring stability and comfort over drama or intensity. However, their stubbornness can be tiring if you’re craving change or excitement. Their love of luxury and comfort can also be draining… to your wallet.